Some have the attitude, "I have the knowledge and how God have blessed me with that knowledge. One of these days you will also come to know and have the same knowledge and that is when you will know the TRUTH." Job's friends were obstacles to his relationship with God when they don't really know why things are happening to Job.
Self-righteousness is terrible among Christian community because it is very naturally that we judge everyone by what/who we are because it is usually smug satisfaction with self. Self-righteousness also leads to self-satisfaction accompanied by unawareness of what is going on. Job's friends acted like God's prophets sent to straighten out Job's life. They claimed to know more than Job did. Not all of their doctrines are false but they used their doctrines wrongly. Job's friends should not assume that they automatically knew what to do because they know that God is GOOD. Job's friends may assumed that he got what he deserved like some in today's world would say "if the shoes fit, then you got what you deserved". Job didn't sinned and he was not opposing God but at the same time, Job was trying to understand why his trials were happening.
Some examples of bad theologies:
Job 4:7 - Eliphaz told Job "Stop and think! Does the innocent person perish? When has the upright person been destroyed?"
Job 5:6 - Eliphaz insisted, "Evil does not spring from the soil, and trouble does not spourt from the earth". Meaning if someone's life is messed up, then there is obviously a cause. After all, trouble doesn't come out of nowhere.
Job 8:4 - "Your children obviously sinned against God, so their punishment was well deserved".
Job 8:20 - Bildad said "God will not reject a person of integrity, nor will he make evildoers prosper".
Job 11:6 - Zophar said "God is doubtless punishing you far less than you deserve."
Job 11:13-20 - Zophar said "If only you would prepare your heart and lift up your hands to God in prayer.......you will be protected and will rest in safety". Zophar's theology was wrong when he told Job that a godly person who suffered still cannot be righteous.
Job 15:20 - Eliphaz said "Wicked people are in pain throughout their lives".
Job 22:5 - Eliphaz said "Your guilt has no limit."
There are many bad theologies came from Job friends' mouths that I would encourage you all to study the book of Job. There are several reason the Book of Job was placed in the Bible along with other books. One reason is bad theology.
Even though we are no longer sinners (seperated from God) but we have the Holy Spirit in us that we are able to bear fruit in our sinful bodies. I know that people reap what they sow, but we cannot use this in every cases as a universal reason for all kind trials. When a personal life is confronted by affliction, people can either curse God or choose to continue to worship God as Job did. Most often, godly people in pain speak out of their frustration while never losing sight of the unltimate source of comfort.
God told Eliphaz in Job 42:7 "I am angry with you and with your two friends, for you have not been right in what you said about me, as my servant Job was".
This is what God said of His servant, Job:
Job 1:8 Then the LORD asked Satan, "Have you noticed my servant Job? He is the finest man in all the earth--a man of complete integrity. He fears God and will have nothing to do with evil."
Job suffered first set of trials
Job 2:3 Then the LORD asked Satan, "Have you noticed my servant Job? He is the finest man in all the earth--a man of complete integrity. He fears God and will have nothing to do with evil. And he has maintained his integrity, even though you persuaded me to harm him without cause."
Job suffered another set of trials
After Job trials happened, reading Job's friends lectures of bad theology that were used based on assumptions of Job. Let me post a few more bad comments by Job's friends (they sound like Word of Faith followers lectures )
Eliphaz
Job 5:8-9 - My advice to you is this: Go to God and present your case to him. For he does great works too marvelous to understand. He performs miracles without number.
Job 5:7 - "We have found from experience that all this is true. Listen to my counsel, and apply it to yourself."
Job 15:4-6 - Have you no fear of God, no reverence for him? Your sins are telling your mouth what to say. Your words are based on clever deception. But why should I condemn you? Your own mouth does!
Job 22:2-5 - "Can a person's actions be of benefit to God? Can even a wise person be helpful to him? Is it any pleasure to the Almighty if you are righteous? Would it be any gain to him if you were perfect? Is it because of your reverence for him that he accuses and judges you? Not at all! It is because of your wickedness! Your guilt has no limit!"
22:21-23 - "Stop quarreling with God! If you agree with him, you will have peace at last, and things will go well for you. Listen to his instructions, and store them in your heart. If you return to the Almighty and clean up your life, you will be restored."
Job 22:28 - (about choices) "Whatever you decide to do will be accomplished, and light will shine on the road ahead of you."
Zophar
Job 11:3-6 Should I remain silent while you babble on? When you mock God, shouldn't someone make you ashamed? You claim, `My teaching is pure,' and `I am clean in the sight of God.' If only God would speak; if only he would tell you what he thinks! If only he would tell you the secrets of wisdom, for true wisdom is not a simple matter. Listen! God is doubtless punishing you far less than you deserve!
Job 20:3 - I have had to endure your insults, but now my spirit prompts me to reply.
Bildad
Job 8:20 - But look! God will not reject a person of integrity, nor will he make evildoers prosper.